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Erin Davis

Casey Anthony Reminded Me to Drop My Stone

Posted on 07.13.11 by Erin Davis | Twitter: @ErinGraffiti

Like many of you, I was glued to the news last week awaiting the announcement of a verdict in the case of Casey Anthony, who was accused of murdering her two-year-old daughter, Caylee. The case has garnered gobs of media attention, and Casey has been described as a negligent mom who likes to party at best, and at worst—a mom responsible for killing her own brown-eyed baby girl.

When I heard the jury’s verdict that Casey was not guilty, I felt unsatisfied. A “not guilty” verdict doesn’t feel much like justice. My mind raced with thoughts of how very much I want to make the rules, and how I want someone to pay a steep price when something bad happens. Then, I found myself thinking about a woman long ago who actually was found guilty:

The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought in a woman caught in adultery. They . . . said to Jesus, ‘Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery. In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?’ . . . Jesus said to them, ‘Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.’ . . . At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there. Jesus straightened up and asked her, ‘Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?’ ‘No one, sir,’ she said. ‘Then neither do I condemn you,’ Jesus declared. ‘Go now and leave your life of sin’” (John 8:3–11, emphasis added).

According to Old Testament law, the crowd had every right to stone this woman to death. She had been caught in sin after all. But thankfully, God is a God of mercy as well as a God of justice.

The adulterous woman wasn’t the only one Jesus was merciful to. He also spared the crowd. The stones they were carrying were too heavy for them. They couldn’t bear the weight of enforcing the law on others, and Jesus knew it. So, He  reminded them of their own crimes and freed them to leave the enforcement of justice (and mercy) up to Him.

Another individual who was a recipient of Jesus’ mercy was the apostle Paul, who hunted down Christians and ordered their executions (Acts 8:1-3). Our human minds would reason that he deserved punishment; he was responsible for the deaths of numerous saints, after all. Instead, God chased Paul down, forgave him, and outlined His plan to use Paul as “a chosen instrument of mine to carry my name before the Gentiles and kings and the children of Israel” (Acts 9:15). Imagine if believers refused to accept Paul because they were tripped up by their ideas about how justice should have been served to him.

Then there’s the sinful woman who washed Jesus’ feet. The rest of the dinner guests thought she deserved to be shunned because of her former lifestyle, but Jesus was interested in seizing an opportunity to demonstrate grace.  

In the case of Casey Anthony, the verdict has been a reminder to me that the world isn’t mine to judge. I serve a God of justice and He will deal with the sin that permeates each of our lives. When I forget this and pick up stones, God sweetly urges me to drop them and walk in the freedom that comes from knowing His gavel will never condemn me because I am covered by His grace.

A couple of caveats:

  • While God’s version of justice might not always line up with our idea of it, that doesn’t mean justice has not been served.
  • While this post focuses on how we as individuals are not to judge others, the government has a biblical mandate to mediate justice and punish evildoers. As citizens, we should all use God-ordained means to stand against injustice and defend the victimized and oppressed, reforming our systems of justice if and when they fail.

But let Casey Anthony’s story be a reminder that the consequences for sin aren’t ours to dole out, and that we have been spared by a God whose grace is undeserved.

“Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: ‘It is mine to avenge; I will repay,’ says the Lord” (Rom. 12:19).

“The Lord loves righteousness and justice; the earth is full of his unfailing love” (Ps. 33:5).

Comments

  1. Well spoken and a great amen to you for writing the words that help me to understand this case and the verdict that was given by a jury of her peers. In my walk with Jesus, He is showing me that I do not have to understand, I must just keep the Faith in Him and He will take care of all situations. I believe this case is one as a Christian I need to give it to God and He will use it for his greater good in his timing, not mine. I must pray for Casey and her family for their salvation.
    posted by Barbara Welch
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 7:27 am
  2. I may be missing your point. There is something unsetteling about your article.. How can you equate somone who murdered her child and got away with it with yourself?
    posted by Susan
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 8:14 am
  3. I felt like that too. I was disheartened by the fact that we crave justice for others, but want grace when it comes to our lives. I'm guilty of not extending the grace to others I want for myself. I've hated people in my heart and words, which is murder in the eyes of Jesus...I pray that someone will show that mother that God's grace is available to her just as it is to me.
    posted by Tracy
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 8:37 am
  4. I completely stand in agreement to your message of transferring the judgment to God. Yes we have a government who is to do their mandate and it really doesn't matter the outcome of this earthly trial. It is the one we all will face one day before the Lord. My response has been to declare justice done in a trial and pray for her heart to be reconciled to the Lord. It was very disturbing to me the media attention that was given over this. Does anyone else think that part is sad? My four teenage children and I watched only the verdict and post comments and couldn't help but shutter at the way we all want to throw in our judgment so crudely as if we know all.
    I agree the best response is to pray for her and her family, and examine our own lives in view of the only true judge, the Lord.
    I am most saddened for how we seem to be bent on justice served and feel it was not. American justice was served and God's justice will be served as we all stand before him
    One day. Isn't that what we really want? That Casey and all her family be right before God? We aren't the judge and I am praying she can see past us and hear God. This is my prayer for me, my family and our whole country. That we Would humble ourselves before the Lord and repent. Instead of gossip, and judging one another, What would God want us to do? Get on our face before Him and pray for us all. This case is just a microcosm of the heart of our country. May we return to him! May we seek Him while He may still be found. May the hearts of those return to you with broken
    Contrite hearts. Lord we desperately need you!
    posted by Becky
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 8:54 am
  5. One additional thing I want to pass on. As a mom of teenagers, I thought this was wonderful godly counsel. It is important to discuss with our kids the facts of this case, such as a child died, and a woman is on trial for her murder. While America wants justice served, discussing with your kids that we all are sinners and that we can be forgiven if we confess our sins to the Lord and seek forgiveness. Once we ask jesus to be our savior, who died for all sins for all time, we cam have assurance of his forgiveness and move forward. Sin is sin and none is bigger or worse in Gods eyes. I've let
    This be an opportunity to tell my kids that nothing they can ever do will cause me or God not to love them. And that no sin is to great that God can't forgive if we truly are broken and seek forgiveness. I think our kids feel the pressure of being perfect and that's not gods message. Through Christ alone and following Christ in our lives we can be forgiven and made a new creation and be used to tell others of the love of Christ. So moms, let's all use discernment in how we speak
    Of Casey. We are all desperately wicked without Christ. Our kids need to see that they can be forgiven when they fall just as I do.
    The penalty of sin and live in his light.
    posted by Becky
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 9:17 am
  6. Regardless of what I think about the verdict, before God, I stand as Casey. Even though I am guilty, He took the sin and punishment I deserve and I am declared "not guilty" and released from the penalty - eternity without God.
    posted by Elveria
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 9:27 am
  7. You mentioned using God-ordained means to stand against justice - I think that's what has bothered me in this case. We did not judge the case the way God taught us - we judged by looking at the outside of Casey Anthony. She is female, she is white, she is the mom, and she is cute. What if a black male pedophile on a street corner was accused of this crime? Even though it is a thousand times more horrible that a mother would do this to her child, an unrelated pedophile who had no innate love or responsibility for her would had have been found guilty. There is only ONE good thing about Casey Anthony - she's cute. The only thing good about her is the one thing she didn't have anything to do with. She was just born that way. It's just a very scary thought to me that even in such important matters, it's mainly our appearance that counts.

    It's also very sad to think that this woman will likely be pregnant again one day...

    I am thankful for God's mercy and grace. But I also think that we sinful people often do not do things the way He would like us to - like judge by outter appearances???
    posted by annie
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 9:47 am
  8. Well said. While I struggled with that verdict I have also really struggled with the Jaycee Dugard story and wishing awful things on her kidnapper and torturer. My husband scolded me in love, but nonetheless, not judging and seeking revenge continues to be a struggle for us humans.
    posted by Sharon
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 10:00 am
  9. It's not that we shouldn't judge others....just that we should judge ourselves first. In this case, Casey Anthony was brought to trial and the prosecuter failed to prove murder to the jury. So justice in this sense was served and God will take care of the rest. If she is guilty I am sure her guilt will eat away at her. The Bible says there is nothing hidden that will not be made known and nothing crooked that will not be made straight. We can trust in this promise and pray that she will truly come to know Jesus the same way the rest of us have to ...as a repentant sinner.
    momsheart48.blogspot.com
    posted by Susan McCurdy
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 10:34 am
  10. This is so hard. My only comfort is that God is all-knowing and He is the righteous judge. Its hard because what if she is innocent? Her reputation is ruined. What if she is guilty? A dangerous person goes free. My rest is in God's sovereignty. I am a black woman and I remember when OJ Simpson was acquitted, inside I had a sense that our justice system is very broken (even though I was not saved then). I now know that no one gets "away" with anything. God judged his Son for us. I am praying for Ms. Anthony that she will receive God's forgiveness if she has not already.
    posted by momof4
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 10:42 am
  11. I know it's not our place to judge and I will pray for the family; but, I won't deny the fact that I was heartbroken at the verdict.

    I think she should have been convicted of at least Child Endangerment or Neglect. It's not our right to condemn her but that is a right of the courts and I think they failed miserably. By law, crimes are supposed to be punished. If I don't make my child go to school, I would be charged with a misdemeanor count of Contributing to the Delequency of a Minor. It sickens me to think that she can be convicted of a similar level crime when she may have caused the death of her own precious gift from God.

    Revenge is never good or necessary, no matter how strongly our hearts ache for it. I'm not condemning her. I just think the jury and the judge failed that little girl. My hope is that God will convict Casey for the rest of her life. That in itself would be a prison sentence of sorts. I will pray for her and her family. She'll need it.
    posted by Christel
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 10:49 am
  12. We are not to judge hypocritically but we can judge biblically and in love. Do we know for sure she is guilty or some how involved? Probably not. We need to let God take this one and just pray for Casey and her family. And possibly ponder the sermon on the mount where Jesus explains God's standards are so high that anger in the heart is the same as murder.
    posted by Shannon
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 11:34 am
  13. The whole thing is very sad! Please pray for the saftey of ALL children, as this vicious crime unfortunately goes on all the time. Child abuse is horrible on any level especially in the result of death to sweet innocent children. i saw a picture that a christian painted recently and it was a picture of caylee resting in Jesus' lap and he was holding her tightly. this is the image i want to hold on to concerning this sweet little girl. as far as casey is concerned, i am speechless because i, too, dont think earthly justice was done in this case....but ultimately heavenly justice will provail. Lord hear our prayer.
    posted by desert chica
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 11:50 am
  14. What is sad is that so many Christians were consumed by the trial, intently watching and passing on every sorted detail. The Bible tells us not to dwell on these kinds of things (Phil. 4). Personally, I chose to spend my day dwelling on my family and the Word of God in dealing with my own sinful habits, etc. He is the faithful and true Judge for all of us.
    posted by Starr
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 11:59 am
  15. I agree with Shannon:

    "We are not to judge hypocritically but we can judge biblically and in love. Do we know for sure she is guilty or some how involved? Probably not. We need to let God take this one and just pray for Casey and her family. And possibly ponder the sermon on the mount where Jesus explains God's standards are so high that anger in the heart is the same as murder."
    posted by Melissa L
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 12:06 pm
  16. Another thought that crossed my mind in all the clamor of this trial and outcome (I didn't see a single minute of any of it, so I don't know any details except what I read on facebook news feed) is that mothers have been taking their babies' lives by the millions over the last 40 years--hundreds per day--and only God is the Judge and Vindicator in those situations. May our hearts break with what breaks His!
    posted by Tracy
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 12:30 pm
  17. I did not follow the trial - yes, it was a horrid act, but no worse than many others. Locally we have just finished a trial with a man who killed his wife and two young sons to be with his mistress. He even worked for a national Christian miinistry, and there was no media coverage.

    Secondly, something awful happened to this little girl, but, based on the evidence that I know about, I could not bring a legal verdict of guilty. Scripture says that only on the testimony of two witnesses should someone be put to death. I grant that today those witnesses could be DNA evidence, fingerprints, etc., but the prosecution had none of those. The truth is, we really don't know what happened.

    Thirdly, I would caution bloggers to double check their Scripture references. Any good Bible will note that this passage from John about the woman taken in adultery is questionable as to its authenticity. I would hesitate to use it to prove a point.
    posted by Joetta
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 1:33 pm
  18. This is a discouraging verdict, but I would rather see her free than to see one falsely accused go to prison or worse death row. I think the jury was very strong to stand up and with a heavy heart put aside their emotions and admit there just wasn't enough proof to convict this woman, who just happens to be a child as well, who's parents sat in a court of law probably just to save her because they had already lost so much. Be careful in your judgements of others as our judicial system is not perfect it would be a shame to be put yourself there by circumstantial evidence or worse in the shoes of her parents.

    All our righteousness is as filthy rags before our Lord and savior, He is the only one that can truly judge because He is the only one that can see your true heart. May each of you go humbly and in peace .
    posted by Samantha
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 2:18 pm
  19. To Susan;
    My pastor asked us last week, 'If you were the only person in the world, would Jesus still have to face the complete agony of the cross for you?'. In other words, we must face that even our best is as filthy rags before the Lord, and none of us could stand before Him, if Jesus hadn't died for us, and we accepted the wonderful gift. That no matter how 'good' we think we are, we still need Jesus to pay our penalty. Ms. Anthony is no worse than each of us, for we are all sinners and fall short of the glory of God. And for this, I am so grateful!
    posted by Jacquie
    on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at 3:53 pm
  20. I did not follow this case as many individuals had, but it's truly horrible what happened to the little girl and the pain it has caused to families and friends. I am not sure about the trial outcome whether the mother was responsible for the death of her child or not. I have read some of the comments and how God is the Final Judge. I totally agree, but I want to say it's very different to react to a case where your family is not involved. Meaning, if it was your child, niece or grandchild was a victim then you would act differently.

    About 3 decades ago, my family experienced death of two relatives who were killed by a group of men. They were stabbed multiple times and died at the hospital. It was a tragic time for my family losing two people to a brutal death. Certainly media was involved in the reporting and anger and fear grew in the community and in the region. The men were in prison and their families experienced hardships and were ostracized by people. In the end, the men were in prison, but both my family and the murderers families suffered.

    I just wanted to say it's easy for people to talk about forgiveness and justice, but if you are a victim of a crime then a person may change feelings, who does not want to forgive, forget, and wants the person punished. I can understand if a person does not want to forgive, forget, and wants a person punished for crimes and such. The 9-11 attack is a good example how US searched for OBL and he was killed by the Seals and how people were happy about that especially, the victims families.

    This issues of forgiveness and such is sensitive. It's easy for most to talk about forgiveness, but very different if you are a victim.
    posted by Godsgirl
    on Thursday, July 14, 2011 at 12:07 am
  21. I am so glad I am not the only one who felt this way. Thank you for your article. When she was given her not guilty verdict and everybody started having a fit, the only thing I could think about was, this woman has a soul, too. And people who call themselves Christians were posting comments on facebook such as, "She'll burn in hell one day even if she got off for now." The Bible clearly teaches that sin is sin. No sin is greater than another in the eyes of the law. God forgave my sins, and I pray that Casey Anthony feels such conviction that she repents. I would be overjoyed to see her in Heaven one day.

    But how can people keep overlooking the fact that in this country you are innocent until proven guilty? There was simply not any evidence to prove beyond reasonable doubt that she was guilty. I applaud those jurors for being able to look past their own feelings and see that the prosecutor could not prove her guilt. People, we don't know what happened to that baby. For all we know, Casey Anthony may not know either. I feel extremely blessed that I don't have to stand before human beings for my judgment. Only a righteous, merciful God.

    As far as forgiveness goes, the Bible also clearly teaches that if we refuse to forgive, our Father will not forgive us either. It is hard sometimes, of course. But living a Christian life is not exactly easy. I know how it feels to lose a family member to a brutal murder. My cousin was beaten, raped, stabbed, and run over by a car. Her body could only be identified by a tattoo that she had. The man was caught, tried, and convicted, but I can honestly say that I hope he finds God's forgiveness and I harbor no ill feelings towards him. Forgiving someone is actually a very liberating experience. When you hold a grudge, you are hurting yourself, not the other person. There are a lot of things that are easier said than done, but that doesn't relieve us of our responsibility to do them.

    Love in Christ to you all!
    posted by Tara
    on Tuesday, July 19, 2011 at 12:32 pm
  22. Correction to my above comment:
    "No sin is greater than another in the eyes of God!"
    posted by Tara
    on Tuesday, July 19, 2011 at 12:34 pm
  23. We all know that court systems are flawed. There are people who are guilty of crimes that do not get punished while innocent get punished. There are a lot of injustices happening in the world and most people in the world worry about their own lives and their families while neglecting everyone like homeless. I do believe in forgiveness, but I don't believe Jesus or God forgives everybody even if they asked. There are a lot of people who take the Bible or any other Holy texts of religions and manipulate them. There are some people in the world who finding killing people as acceptable and use their religion to justify it.


    Jesus says forgive people, but people don't understand what that really means. When some people look at verses about forgiveness, they believe that they can do whatever they want and later be forgiven by God. God doesn't forgive all people and he evaluates people daily. There are people who attend religious services and such, but don't really incorporate messages of the Bible in their daily lives. There are many people who ignore the world's poor and how many can say that they do services to combat that or other social issues. I don't believe God forgives everyone even if they asked and that's my opinion.
    posted by Godsgirl
    on Wednesday, July 20, 2011 at 11:28 pm
  24. Liberating experience is knowing that God tests people daily in their lives and even allows evil to test us. It truly let's God know who is at his side and who isn't. That's the reason why the world is problematic because many people are not living a Godly life and God seeks to do vengeance on people. Living a good life is like going in battle they way Jesus did on earth. People who truly recognize or discover the meaning of life and good vs evil know that it is a combat. Most people don't have the time or some excuse to ignore most world's problems. Most people are all talk but no show. If people really understand the Bible or any Holy Text they will determine that God is angry and pointing out to people that they are not living a Godly life.

    While forgiveness applies to those who truly understand how their actions hurt others and understand the good vs evil battle. God doesn't expect us to be perfect but he expects us to fulfill our true nature and rise above challenges not within our lives, but in a greater degree. It's easy for people to recite verses or do certain things while ignoring others. When Jesus says the word Godly it means carrying the cross and trying to live a life that Jesus had. Forgiveness isn't I'm sorry and expect Jesus to be okay with things. Forgiveness isn't applied to all people even if they ask. It's those that understand how their actions hurt others and those who understand what Jesus is about especially when battling evil.
    posted by Godsgirl
    on Wednesday, July 20, 2011 at 11:53 pm
  25. The sad thing about this is the way it was handled, no one truly knows what happened to this child or who killed her. We all want the satisfaction of justice for this child. Someone should aways have to pay for killing someone, especially a child. If I had been a juror I could not have given Cassey the guilty verdict either, not enough evidence. What is sad to me is that this family is broken and there is a lot of pain. This is truly a type and shaddow of what a family is like that does not have JESUS in the center of everything. Our system failed to find the evidence needed, instead just jumped out there and started pointing fingers. God forgive us for our judgements toward others and help this family, this woman, a woman that basically has no life, help her find you!
    MSN
    posted by Peggy Eddy
    on Friday, July 22, 2011 at 1:06 pm
  26. from the beginning of this whole thing i had a hard time believing casey killed her daughter. just looking at the photos of them together made it highly improbable. i've been scorned for giving her my full support during her trial because i'm not much for sensationalism as so many were caught up in the media lynching. the fact remained for 3 yrs little caylee was dead, yes but she was not killed. i think that was a major overlooked point by the hateful masses. she had no history of abuse and was a very loved and happy child. i feel everyone should understand that children die every second from accidents and it's not always the parent being negligent. we should understand casey was very young and most likely discovered her daughter dead and panicked. how many times in our youth have we worried about getting in trouble for something we may or may not have done and instinctually covered it over? caylee was examined by 2 med. examiners and found no cause of death therefore she wasn't "killed". none of us know casey's relationship with God. maybe she is the one praying for our judgemental souls??
    posted by Robin
    on Friday, July 22, 2011 at 10:19 pm
  27. So thankful felt like someone might stone me because Jesus died for every one who sins and when Casey was found not guilty it was like a media denial of the evidence! The woman is human and God forgives every sin not just a few Only God knows what really happened to that child...
    I was not convinced she murdered her child. I am convinced that no matter what God is a God of mercy and Grace we must love those who are lost everyone has sin it is up to them to admit it and repent of it!
    posted by Theresa Young
    on Tuesday, July 26, 2011 at 12:44 pm

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