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Paula Hendricks

The Skinny on Why We Even Bother to Cover Up

Posted on 06.12.12 by Paula Hendricks | Twitter: @PaulaWrites678

Last week, walking the sandy Michigan beach in black sundress and straw hat, I felt conspicuously clothed.

Surrounded by tummy-touting females, sometimes a woman has to wonder, why not strip down, kick back, and soak up sun’s summer rays?

In The Look: Does God Really Care What I Wear? Nancy Leigh DeMoss transports us all the way back to the Garden of Eden for the skinny on why we even bother to cover up:

When God made the first man and woman, He made them without clothes: “The man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed” (Gen. 2:25).

Before Adam and Eve sinned, there was no clothing . . . and there was no shame or guilt. That’s because Adam and Eve were sinless. There were no barriers in their relationship with God or with each other.

That all changed when Adam and Eve decided to “have it their way.” The moment they ate the forbidden fruit, they experienced shame and self-consciousness: “Then the eyes of both were opened, and they knew that they were naked” (Gen. 3:7).

For the first time in their lives, they experienced the shame and guilt that are the fruit of sin. From this point on in the Bible, nakedness (outside of marriage) is referred to as shameful.

Adam and Eve immediately tried to come up with a way to cover their nakedness and shame. They didn’t ask God’s advice about how to dress. Instead, they came up with their own plan—they sewed fig leaves together to cover their private parts. (Did you know that fig leaves have the consistency of heavy sandpaper? Those first clothes must have been really uncomfortable!) They quickly realized that the fig leaves could not adequately solve their problem, so they hid themselves.

Mercifully, God didn’t let them stay hidden; He took the initiative to restore the fellowship that had been broken. “But the LORD God called to the man and said to him, “Where are you?” (Gen. 3:9).

Notice who first brought up the issue of Adam’s lack of clothing. It wasn’t God. It was Adam! In fact, his first words to God after the Fall were: “I heard the sound of you in the garden, and I was afraid, because I was naked, and I hid myself” (Gen. 3:10).

God’s response demonstrates that He didn’t consider their nakedness the primary issue: “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten of the tree of which I commanded you not to eat? (Gen. 3:11).

Adam and Eve’s primary concern was their nakedness; God’s primary concern was that they had disobeyed His word and that their relationship with Him had been broken. They were concerned about their external appearance; God was concerned about their hearts.

In fact, initially God didn’t even address the issue of their nakedness. First, He dealt with them about the root issue of their sin and its consequences; He dealt with the broken relationship; He gave them the Gospel (Gen. 3:15)—the promise of a solution for their sin. Then, God came back to the matter of their clothes. With loving concern and grace, God dressed the first couple.

God didn’t overlook the problem of their nakedness or act like it didn’t matter. But neither was it the first thing He addressed.

When He finally got to the clothing issue, He said to Adam and Eve in effect, “Here’s My provision for your nakedness. Your way just won’t work. You need to do it My way!” Notice that Adam and Eve’s idea of clothing (fig leaves) and God’s idea of clothing (garments of skin) were very different.

Genesis 3:7 says, “They sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loincloths.” That word in the original language could be translated “aprons” or “belts (for the waist).”

By contrast, the “garments” that God made for Adam and Eve (Gen. 3:21) were “tunics” or “coats.” Various Bible dictionaries agree that this term refers to an article of clothing that covers the body at least from the neck to the knees.

This observation helps us understand that the God-created purpose for clothing was to cover the body.   

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. As the temperature climbs this summer, what will motivate you to cover up (or to not cover up)?

Come back tomorrow for super practical helps for the next swimwear shopping trip for you, your daughters, and/or granddaughters.

 

Comments

  1. BEAUTIFULLY WRITTEN!!!!!! I have felt for SOMETIME that our girls (& guys) haven't been getting the teachings of MODESTY! And I have begun my own study on the subject! What a blessing to read this today! Of course, Modesty goes in MANY DIRECTIONS! But, this post today is what MOST PEOPLE think about when they think of modesty. I have ALWAYS been one who PREFERS to cover up! AND our daughter & son, feel the same! I've NEVER believed what people say, " If you've got it, flaunt it!" PERSONALLY, I don't like the looks others get when they "flaunt it!" And wouldn't like those looks in my direction! I think when you "flaunt it" it also shows one thinks it's all about them! They WANT the looks, they want to be noticed & so what if it might bother someone else, cause it's all about them! It goes with the times in our society---our society is selfish & ungodly! Thank you for your post today! It's a COVER UP for me! :)
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    posted by Becky Green
    on Tuesday, June 12, 2012 at 7:29 am
  2. I believe in modesty in clothing not only because it honors Christ, but because my body belongs to my husband and I don't want to draw attention from other men. Also because I want to set a good example for my sons of what a lady wears to the pool. I tend to stay away from bathing suits that make me feel like I'm wearing my undergarments out in public...I'm a big fan of swim skirts/shorts. I feel pretty and comfortable in them. But that's just me =)
    posted by Tracy
    on Tuesday, June 12, 2012 at 7:52 am
  3. Very good article! It is also interesting to note that the "self-consciouness" was a result of the fall. How we all struggle with that and the resultiing sin it brings (remembering the post about comparison earlier this week). I, too, have been considering buying new swimwear for myself and my children because I want to be sure to glorify God in each area of life and not just "go with the culture" as long as we are at the beach. The contrast you gave between what Adam and Eve designed for themselves and what God gave them to wear is insightful! I'm looking forward to tomorrow's post.
    http://www.kneesdownchinup.com/
    posted by Susan McCurdy
    on Tuesday, June 12, 2012 at 7:57 am
  4. I want to thank you for this article on "Does God care what I wear"? I found it to be an eye-opener and wish one of my sisters could read the article. She is so caught up on what we should wear to church that she forgets why she is even going to church.
    posted by Veronica
    on Tuesday, June 12, 2012 at 9:16 am
  5. The modesty issue is so crucial, especially in church with our brothers in Christ. It's not only what we wear, but how we move our bodies (bending over, etc.).

    In church one day, I watched as a woman walked up the aisle, shaking hands with all her girlfriends... but as she bent over each time, every woman's husband had to avert his eyes.

    I made that mistake myself with a group of men once... helping them load boxes, not realizing that every time I bent over, I was exposing too much. One of the godly men in the group graciously asked me to "not help," and I later discovered why. (Learning experience!)

    Another time, some teenage girls were sitting, hunched over, on our church stairway to the second floor. Every man who had to pass by them saw "all the way down their blouses." I didn't want to embarrass them, but I gently suggested that they might move because they were showing "a bit too much" (which was putting it mildly). They rolled their eyes, shook their heads, and refused to move. I grieved for the men in our church.

    I spoke with a group of women several times about having a modesty panel on a women's day out to discuss these issues ... but every time it got derailed because we couldn't move forward with one question: "How will we deal with swimsuits, if that question comes up?" So I'll be interested in reading the post tomorrow.
    http://heartchoicestoday.blogspot.com/
    posted by Dawn Wilson
    on Tuesday, June 12, 2012 at 12:50 pm
  6. Ever since I started living for Jesus, which was age 14, I have wondered why people wear swim attire and not feel like there is something just not right about it. Bottom line and without hedging around the issue... why not just wear your bra and panties out there in public, there would probably be more covering than if you bought swim attire.

    For the life of me, I have never figured this one out and I am in my 50's now.

    Makes sense to me to read scripture and realize it is very simple. A woman should be modest and shame faced. Modest is not having men gawk and believe me, they gawk, and then the responsibility of their lust lies on us. We as women, have an awesome responsibility. We need to take it seriously.

    I know I have heard all the explanations of "Well, we need to buy 'modest' swim attire." Really?

    If it is against the law to wear your underwear in a public place.... how do we justify wearing swim attire in a public place. I would rather know the truth of the matter than blind myself for a little fleshly pleasure.

    I hope this isn't misunderstood. And I hope these comments are posted as food for thought, certainly not contention. Sometimes we label things as contention if they are too hard to swallow or unpopular.
    posted by ~Lynn
    on Tuesday, June 12, 2012 at 1:49 pm
  7. For me I am to put the gospel on display in what I wear. My heart is to not be a stumbling block to a watching world.

    In recent years there's been research done on the brain when it comes to immodesty and I believe that when I have too much showing (cleavage, bra straps, too short of shorts/skirts, too tight of clothes) it puts a block between me and someone I'd like to share the gospel with.

    Modesty is an issue of the heart...plain and simple.
    posted by heather
    on Tuesday, June 12, 2012 at 4:35 pm
  8. It took forever for me to find modest swim wear. The worlds opinion of mostest is very different then my own. I finally found an awesome wet suit that was flattering but not revealing for my daughter and I also found swim pants and shorts from coolibar.com for myself. Light weight and covers very well!
    posted by Amy
    on Tuesday, June 12, 2012 at 4:40 pm
  9. Amy- my family and I also wear coolibar swimwear, even my boys. It's modest, and we love it!
    posted by Jessica
    on Tuesday, June 12, 2012 at 9:34 pm
  10. AMEN and AMEN!
    posted by Diana Hogan
    on Wednesday, June 13, 2012 at 2:47 am
  11. this is good and AMen to this
    posted by Sarah
    on Wednesday, June 13, 2012 at 7:16 am
  12. And there is a big part of the problem - the lack of availability of modest swimwear - especially for teens and young women. And the age old question if 'why is something so small so expensive'!
    posted by Jennifer S
    on Wednesday, June 13, 2012 at 9:53 pm
  13. Thank you so much for addressing this issue. One of the many reasons, I retired early from teaching middle school, was being tired of looking at bare flesh all day-especially by the girls-and our administration slowly giving up the fight against it. Had an interesting conversation once with a mother of a former student-now in high school-when he came home from the prom (he was a committed young Christian man) he told his mom it had not been a nice evening-as he couldn't figure out where to put his hands when he was dancing with his Christian girlfriend in her lack of cloth dress.
    Paul put it very well-we are free to do anything-but what we choose to do or not do should always be guided by what it might do to others-especially our Christian brothers and sisters.
    Let's please go back to modest dressing-and not put things out there to hurt Christian young men in their fight to be true to the Lord.
    posted by Marilyn Williams
    on Thursday, June 14, 2012 at 11:33 am
  14. Love what you said here Marilyn!
    posted by ~Lynn
    on Thursday, June 14, 2012 at 8:20 pm
  15. Totally agree with Nancy, cover up! We are anti bathing suits, shorts and t-shirts are the rule. God covered us up, scripture is clear He wants us to stay that way. He doesn't make a distinction of where you're at is what dictates how modest one ought to be. Modesty is across the board, in your home with your family, out and about, at church, and even at the pool & beach.
    posted by Heather
    on Friday, June 15, 2012 at 8:58 am
  16. Modesty is something that is lacking these days in people around the world. Media, fashion, peer pressure, and such has led more and more people to show more skin than to cover up. It's problematic around the world and even young children are taught from seeing television, seeing other people, and such that it's okay to show skin. We are constantly bombarded by images and see people wearing revealing clothes. It's important for people to set good examples for themselves, to their own family, and others. Respect your body. Prom dresses are revealing, juniors section clothes of girls are revealing, Hollister revealing targeting both men and women, and so forth. We are constantly bombarded to buy makeup in order to look like the model or celebrity instead appreciating our natural beauty. Respect, modestly, acceptance of one's own beauty is lacking these days and I hope more and more people set good examples.
    posted by Godsgirl
    on Monday, June 18, 2012 at 2:23 am
  17. I just got back from a 2 week mission trip to Brazil, a country where the vast majority of women wear tight and revealing clothing (not just at the beach). I saw plenty of skin, even from fellow Christians. To me, it's just plain sad. Our bodies are not our own. They were bought at a price, and we ought to honor God with our bodies. This extends past modesty to what we eat and drink, our sexuality, and our exercise habits, among other things.

    What motivates me to cover up is first about honoring my body (the temple of God), and secondly about access - only my doctors and future husband should have access to certain areas of my body, not every man, woman, and child around me.

    Thanks for this post, Paula!
    posted by Lindsay
    on Tuesday, July 3, 2012 at 2:52 pm

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