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Kimberly Wagner

A peek into my prayer life

Posted on 03.23.09 by Kimberly Wagner | Twitter: @KimberlyWagner7
Topics: Relationship with God

“Will you pray for . . .?” is perhaps the question I'm most often asked. I'm thankful when invited to intercede in prayer, it allows me to be a part of God's process and work in others' lives. Although I still have much to learn, I thought I'd give you a peek into my prayer life.

I have a large “daily planner” containing a monthly calendar and pages for each day. I've added sections to the planner to use for prayer. It's a loose-leaf binder and pages can be easily added or removed. Each individual or ministry has its own page where I record Scriptures that apply to their need. I log dates of prayer requests and answers received.

Prayer sections:

  • Daily: My family and a few close friends (These are some of the Scriptures I pray): 

For my husband: Ephesians 1:17-19; Psalm 15:1-2, 92:12-15
Our children: Colossians 1:9-12; 2 Corinthians 13:7-9; 1 Timothy 4:12, 6:11,12; 2 Timothy 2:22; Proverbs 2:20
Nancy DeMoss: Psalm 71:17-18

  • Sunday: My pastor and church leaders, worship team, our church, and other churches I'm burdened for
  • Monday – Saturday: various ministries, revival, our nation and its leaders, friends, and church members, are divided over these days
  • Praise Report: This section is a compilation of various answers to prayer


Intercession Tips:

  • When someone asks for prayer, if at all possible pray with her right then.
  • Ask the Holy Spirit to bring this to mind at critical times when intercession is needed.
  • Write down the prayer request. If you keep a log or prayer journal transfer it to the appropriate category.
  • When an individual is facing a potentially severe trial, ask if you can include a group of women for a specific time of prayer over her. It may be necessary to enlist women to pray at specific times in order to have a regular cycle of intercession.
  • Use every opportunity to intercede: when driving and you recognize someone in traffic, when passing a friend's house, or when hearing a song that reminds you of someone–pray for them.
  • Keep reports or updates from ministries in order to pray for specific needs.
  • If your prayer time is interrupted by thoughts of things needing to be done, jot them down and return to prayer, keep in mind these interruptions may be things that need prayer as well.

You don't have to use a prayer journal or set specific times to pray, however, I've found that these things help me to be diligent in accomplishing prayer rather than having good intentions that never come to fruition. I love the freedom of coming to God anytime, anyplace, praying about anything–that should occur all throughout the day. What I've shared with you today applies to the disciplined intercession that can at times seem monotonous, but is labor that yields reward.

One of life's greatest joys is seeing God answer prayer. Would you share a testimony of answered prayer?

Comments

  1. Oh the joy of answered prayer! God sent a precious grandson into our lives last August, after 3 years of praying for our son and daughter-in-law to conceive a child! Because he is a Pastor, their private pain of infertility was so public as they were asked so often "when are you going to have a child?" People are loving and well-meaning, but it was so hard for them. After a failed adoption and the heartache that brought, God blessed their home and our lives with a baby boy in perfect timing. God is so faithful and we praise Him for granting this desire of our hearts.
    http://granjansjoy.blogspot.com
    posted by J. Morton
    on Monday, March 23, 2009 at 12:12 pm
  2. Praise the Lord! Thank you for sharing this beautiful testimony. Our Heavenly Father is faithful. We rejoice with you in this blessing from the Life-giver!
    posted by Kimberly Wagner
    on Monday, March 23, 2009 at 12:46 pm
  3. Prayer is powerful. The Lord has shown me that over and over these past few months. I am blessed to have Kimberly Wagner as a friend and my pastor's wife. She is an incredible prayer warrior. I went through a very dark time of great fear a few months ago. This involved great anixiety and moments of panic. I was literally paralyzed with fear. Kim ,as she mentioned above, asked several women to pray for me almost around the clock for several weeks. Almost over night I experienced a peace I was in desperate need of. I still have a long way to go in my journey of trusting my Savior on a new level but I now realize not only the power of prayer but the importance of lifting each other up in times of need. The Lord has become so real to me like never before through the prayers of others and through His Word. He truly is the I AM for every situation.
    posted by Christy Robinson
    on Monday, March 23, 2009 at 12:53 pm
  4. Dearest Christy,

    I praise the Lord for His very evident work of grace in your life. You are a living testimony of His transformational power as is seen by your ministry now to other women facing similar fears.

    Thank you so much my dear sister for your kind words, it is a joy to labor with you in the service of our Great King!
    posted by Kimberly Wagner
    on Monday, March 23, 2009 at 1:04 pm
  5. Oh, I love the practical tips - it seems like most of the women I know are aware that they should pray and why, but the how is always so helpful.

    I use a notebook too; so when someone calls, I can just add the request to that date. However, as the Lord answers, I highlight the request in yellow and write the answer next to it in red.

    It's so encouraging to see how much and how often God answers prayer - and how often the answer is very different or even very much greater than I had asked.
    Our God is an awesome God!

    And sometimes I just flip back through and praise Him for all the "yellows" I can see!
    posted by Ellen
    on Monday, March 23, 2009 at 2:51 pm
  6. Praising the Lord with you, Ellen, for all the "yellows"!

    I love to look back at His wonderful works and He loves to hear those prayers of praise and thanksgiving :-)

    Thanks for sharing.
    posted by Kimberly Wagner
    on Monday, March 23, 2009 at 3:03 pm
  7. I praise God for you all who have written! Thank you so much for refreshing my "how-to's". I don't know how many of you are like me: it seems I go through phases of prayer journaling (and not always or only when something "bad" happens either). In my various journals are prayer requests from others. I'm careful about what I write though; Mama always says "don't write it down if you don't want to see it in the headlines of the Atlanta Journal Constitution"! And over the years I have actually destroyed numerous of my prayer journals for just that reason. I will continue to do so as the Lord leads and to record prayer requests in the same way -- under His leadership. Pray for me that I keep my ears open for His leading in all things. love
    posted by ann
    on Monday, March 23, 2009 at 4:06 pm
  8. Dearest Kimberly and sisters above!

    Thank you for these practical tips! Although I love to pray and by God's grace have seen many answers to prayer, I have not been much of a consistent journal-keeper. I would like to start, as the Lord leads, and perhaps one day (when there is time) take time to record some of the prayers and answers to prayer from days gone by. Like scripture meditation, this is another discipline I have been wanting to add to my life. Through this ministry (and God's work in my heart!) I have now started memorizing scripture regularly (what a blessing!). Kim, would you pray that I will be faithful in this area too (writing in a prayer journal), as the Lord would lead in my life? Thank you!

    In His love,
    posted by Leslie S.
    on Monday, March 23, 2009 at 5:00 pm
  9. Ohh this is wonderful! Something I have been wondering about for a long time.
    I want to start a prayer journal like what you've described above...but I just don't know where to start! There are sooo many things that need prayer, and most of the time...I just don't know WHAT to pray. I feel like that person or situation needs to be lifted up in prayer, but I just don't know what to say.
    I really want to start somewhere. Could you wonderful ladies pray for me? Thanks!!!
    posted by Jessica
    on Monday, March 23, 2009 at 8:39 pm
  10. Dear Ann,

    Thank you for the reminder to protect the privacy of those you are interceding for -- good word!

    I love your request, and will be praying for you to "keep your ears open for His leading in all things." Please pray the same for me.

    Father, thank You for the women reading this blog. Thank You for Ann's desire to follow Your lead. Thank You that You are willing to lead us. Holy Spirit, would You begin burdening the women on this blog site to commit to a devoted life of prayer? May we serve as intercessors in the battle for our families, our churches, this nation, and for your kingdom to be established on earth. May our prayer lives bring pleasure to You, Almighty God.
    posted by Kimberly Wagner
    on Monday, March 23, 2009 at 9:49 pm
  11. Greetings Leslie,

    It is never too late to start recording your prayers in a journal. It doesn't have to be lengthy. It helps if you already have a regular devotional time established and you can incorporate this into your normal prayer time.

    You don't need a fancy notebook or expensive binder. I like the kind that I can add pages to, as I fill up a page for an individual, I can insert a blank one behind the one that is filled. That way I can easily refer to what I've been praying for them and how God has been at work.

    I'm excited you want to start this, and as you requested, I will be praying the Lord gives you grace to stay faithful. Don't be overwhelmed trying to fill in a whole list of requests and Scriptures the first day, start with your family members first and gradually add others. As you pray for them write down things the Lord brings to mind. As you read Scripture, if you come across a passage that would apply to a need in their lives, record it on the page dedicated to that person.

    May you find great joy in interceding for others!
    posted by Kimberly Wagner
    on Monday, March 23, 2009 at 10:04 pm
  12. Dear Jessica,

    I'm so glad you want to start a prayer journal! Please read my comment to Leslie above for some suggestions about getting started.

    As you stated, I too, am unsure of what to pray for individuals at times. That is why I am so thankful we have the Holy Spirit to intercede when we're unsure of what to say (Romans 8:26-27).

    Here are a few things I'm learning about praying for others, though:

    1) Pray with an eternal perspective in mind. What I mean by this is, pray larger than just the person's immediate circumstance. Ask God to use this particular situation in their life in the advancement of His kingdom. I don't always ask God to "fix" or "heal" or "provide abundantly". Sometimes I ask God to withhold the "abundance" if He knows it will hinder the individual from being more conformed to His image. That is praying with an eternal, rather than temporal, perspective (2 Corinthians 4:17-18).

    2) Ask the Holy Spirit to give you insight in how to pray for the individual. Ask Him to bring Scriptures to mind that would be good to pray for that person. Also Ask Him to bring that individual to mind at times when it is critical for you to pray for them.

    3) Don't be discouraged if you don't see answers to your prayers right away. This past week God answered a request I've been bringing Him for 4 years. Two years ago the Lord answered a request I had for 2 decades. Don't grow weary. It is a rich reward to see prayers answered after years of faithful intercession.

    I will be praying for you start this new spiritual discipline - I am excited for you. It is a joy to intercede for others and know that God is listening and at work.

    Please let us hear how its going sometime!
    posted by Kimberly Wagner
    on Monday, March 23, 2009 at 10:26 pm
  13. Hi Leslie S,
    One way of jotting down prayers is to put them in a large type of calendar.
    I abbreviate (my own code) & jot it down for each month as it comes & as as needful.
    I put it at the bottom in the empty squares or on the side, depending on the style of calendar.
    Sometimes I draw a stick drawing too:=)FUN!!!
    I have super old calendars to remember special memories, at the cost of not much time either...
    posted by Leslie Dawn Neagle
    on Tuesday, March 24, 2009 at 1:34 am
  14. Kim,

    Thank you so much!! I have started the journal, and am excited about it. May it be a tool that leads me deeper in my relationship with Christ and in my service to others. I'm also using the same notebook as a quiet time journal -- I have journaled on and off in my quiet times -- but think this will help me be more organized (separate sections for Bible studies and prayer journal).

    I feel like I am in Bible school with ROH, between Nancy's teachings and Kim's mentoring (and Paula, Mary K., and others). What a privilege; my life is being enriched and I am greatly thankful. May it all be to and for the glory of our dear Lord Jesus, in my life and the lives of my sisters in Christ. Thank you, Leslie N., for your tips also -- it was good to hear from you!

    Heavenly Father, I pray that we sisters in Christ might glorify you as we pursue you in prayer, pray for others, and seek to do your will through the precious gift you have given us, that of prayer. Thank you, Father, for this gift of communion with you; how awesome. Please guide and help us in all our endeavors. In Jesus' name, Amen.
    posted by Leslie S.
    on Tuesday, March 24, 2009 at 9:16 am
  15. Way to go, Leslie!

    I'm so excited for you to get started in this! I also use the same journal for my quiet time. I record what I'm reading in Scripture on the dated page.

    For example, today's reading was: Deut. Chapters 2-3, Psalm 67, Prov. 11:27 & Luke 6:12-38. The daily planner page is lined; with today's date on it. Psalm 67 was a blessing today, and I copied a few verses that stood out to me. Often I will note the particular way God speaks to me through the portion of Scripture that I've read.

    I jot down significant events that will occur on any particular day, I also record anything from my devotional book I'm reading (Spurgeon) or a prayer from "The Valley of Vision" that I want to include.

    Today, a friend and I are taking my invalid father to an appointment and tonight we will be ministering in a prison in our area, so I've written a prayer on this page requesting God's grace for the needs of this day, noting these ministry opportunities.

    You don't have to take the time to record all these types of things in your journal, it can be as brief as the good suggestions Leslie Dawn shared above (thanks, Leslie!) but I've found it is very encouraging to have prayer needs and highlights in my spiritual journey recorded. At times of spiritual struggle, desert seasons or times when I need my faith increased, it helps to look back through things I've jotted down in my journal and see how God has been at work.

    Enjoy this new endeavor and let us know how God uses it in your life! Blessings to you this day dear sister,
    posted by Kimberly Wagner
    on Tuesday, March 24, 2009 at 10:41 am
  16. Thank you for the tips Kim. I have never had a strong prayer life, and even when i tried, i would get discouraged not knowing what to pray for. I would feel that a person needed prayer, but was never quite sure how to pray. I know God has been urging me toward being a woman of prayer, and I am going to start a prayer journal. I am looking forward to what God has in store for me through this. Thanks so much for the encouragement. You are truly a blessing.
    posted by Sarah
    on Tuesday, March 24, 2009 at 11:54 am
  17. Blessings abound! Thank you all for your prayers. Rest assured you all have mine as well - right now!
    I once kept a pocket prayer journal on just that - one of those pocket calendars that fit in my purse. It was great because it made me totally focus and be specific in what I wrote without being wordy, something I have a tendency towards doing. I know God is good and He can work with whatever form our prayers take, but it really did help me stay on track. Either that or I had to write really small! :-)
    posted by ann
    on Tuesday, March 24, 2009 at 2:22 pm
  18. It is not the "power of prayer", it's the power of God. Cults and religion offer prayer all the time as well. Prayer is talking to a powerful, sovereign God. I heard in a sermon: "When God answers our prayers with a 'yes', He wants to increase our faith. When He answers 'no', He wants to increase our obedience." God the Father said "no" to Jesus' prayer in Gesthemane, because it was for God's sovereign purposes for our salvation.

    Writing down prayer requests and the answers helps us to remember God's faithfulness in the past so we can trust Him with trials in the future.

    He or she who prays, will praise!
    posted by Susan
    on Wednesday, March 25, 2009 at 10:17 am
  19. Way to go, Sarah!

    You might consider asking God for a friend that will help hold you accountable with your commitment to "become a woman of prayer". Perhaps she would be willing to be a prayer partner with you. We will join you in prayer as well. The Lord delights in answering hearts that desire to learn more concerning prayer.

    In case you didn't read my first post this month (3/03: Practicing Ceaseless Prayer), let me recommend one of my favorite classics to inspire you as you start your prayer journal: "The Practice of the Presence of God" by Brother Lawrence. You might want to look for an updated or modern revision of this old classic.

    Knowing you are starting a prayer journal and desire to be a woman of prayer is truly a blessing! Stay in touch and let us hear how it goes :-)
    posted by Kimberly Wagner
    on Wednesday, March 25, 2009 at 12:36 pm
  20. Amen! Good word, Susan. Thanks for the comment!
    posted by Kimberly Wagner
    on Wednesday, March 25, 2009 at 12:38 pm
  21. The sermon mentioned in my above post was preached by Jerry Bridges in a church I visited in South Carolina. He has also authored a book titled "Trusting God" which I have read twice. It was a very encouraging book and I have recommended it to others. BUT no matter how good a book is, it is not to substitute God's Word.

    Thank you, Kim.
    posted by Susan
    on Wednesday, March 25, 2009 at 10:43 pm
  22. "Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus: Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God:...And being found in the fashion as a man, He humbled Himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross." Philppians 2:6,8

    This reference is for Christ's obedience to the Father after the Father said "no" and Christ went to the cross to die for us. I wanted to back my comment with Scripture.

    Blessings to all you ladies who posted. The posts were encouraging to me to press on.
    posted by Susan
    on Wednesday, March 25, 2009 at 11:05 pm
  23. These posts have been a great inspiration to me. Am new to this site, and I thank God that I have found such a site. I would like to start a prayer journal also - thank you all for the information provided here.

    God Bless!
    posted by Lori
    on Thursday, March 26, 2009 at 4:55 pm
  24. Welcome Lori!

    So glad to have you joining us. We thank God for leading you to this site. I'm so glad you are committing to starting a prayer journal. Let us hear how God uses that in your life.

    If you've never been on the Revive Our Hearts website, you'll want to check it out, too. It is filled with great resources and the teaching ministry of Nancy Leigh DeMoss. You can listen to her daily radio program on that site or read the transcripts.

    http://www.reviveourhearts.com

    May you be encouraged and blessed in your walk with Christ and in your pursuit of becoming a True Woman!
    posted by Kimberly Wagner
    on Thursday, March 26, 2009 at 5:53 pm
  25. Hebrews 7: 25
    "Therefore he is able to save completely those who come to God through him, because he already lives to intercede for them."
    This verse reminds me that Jesus is continuously interceding on my behalf and I have a great privilege of interceding also for others by bring the concern of my husband, friends and enemies His feet. Sometime I think why tell the Lord what He already knows, but then I realize that the Lord Jesus wants to hear from me in my own words the concerns of His people, just like Moses did for the people Israel. My prayer is that the Lord continues to refresh my memory with His truth and challenge me in my prayer life to be obedient.
    posted by Hyacinth
    on Thursday, March 26, 2009 at 11:57 pm
  26. Hyacinth,

    Thank you for quoting Hebrews 7:25 -- I love that promise!

    Great prayer request, too, thanks for sharing. May you be filled with the joy of Christ's presence as you call on Him to refresh your memory with His truth in order to walk in obedience!

    "Revive me according to Your lovingkindness, so that I may keep the testimony of Your mouth. Forever, O Lord, Your Word is settled in heaven." Psalm 119:88-89
    posted by Kimberly Wagner
    on Friday, March 27, 2009 at 10:48 am

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