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Paula Hendricks

Foreign virtues?

Posted on 05.01.09 by Paula Hendricks | Twitter: @PaulaWrites678
Topics: Womanhood

Buckle your seat belt. We’re about to delve deeper into biblical womanhood. During the month of May, we’ll move on to the sixth commitment of the True Woman Manifesto, and seek to glorify God by cultivating such virtues as purity, modesty, submission, meekness, and love. Sound countercultural? That's because it is!

I’m excited because these very virtues are the ones that please God—the ones He finds beautiful, according to His Word. That’s enough to motivate me to tackle these all-too-often foreign virtues.

As we prepare blog posts for you, is there anything you’d like us to address along these lines? Which of these virtues are you most interested in learning about? Which virtue is hardest to find in your life?

 

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  1. Purity-- of thought -- would definitely be a virtue I desire. Judgmental thoughts of others surface along with the conviction that those thoughts are sin and displeasing to Jesus. A pure heart overflowing with His love is my prayer.
    posted by Gerry
    on Friday, May 1, 2009 at 9:35 am
  2. All of these virtues entertwine quite well, so it's hard to detach one from the other. However, I am particularly interested in cultivating that quiet and meek spirit that is so valued by God. I am naturally neither one of these, and I feel hopeless that it will ever happen. I know it's not literally forcing myself to be stoic and quiet, but rather a deep gentleness that can only be produced by the Lord's grace. What does this look like in daily living, and how can I attain it?
    posted by Jessica
    on Friday, May 1, 2009 at 9:49 am
  3. Definitely LOVE...

    As I have been spending time with the Lord, I've noticed in several of the scriptures that I've read that love seems to be the driving force behind all of the commands. I've been asking the Lord Jesus to fill up with His love so that I can, in turn, give it back to Him and to others.

    I'm with Jessica (comment above)...what does it look like and how can I attain it?

    I've thought about studying 1 Corinthians 13 in depth and "praying through" it. I've just had so many other things to pray about lately.

    By the way, we have a missionary from Mexico coming to our church tonight. He's only been in the country for a week and with the "swine flu' scare, some have been sort of leary about his coming. Please pray for me that I would have wisdom and not fear. I'm in South Carolina and we've already seen some cases here.
    posted by Jannie
    on Friday, May 1, 2009 at 10:10 am
  4. Jannie, I will be praying for you in regard to the missionary coming from Mexico. We, too, have our House Church missionary returning from Mexico this coming Tuesday .. and the swine flu is a thought/concern eps. since she told me last night that she has an upset stomach (hoping it is just something she ate). She has been in Mexico for a year. I would appreciate prayer as well, for peace and freedom from fear. HE reigns and is in control.

    Topic I would like to see addressed is "love". This is a struggle for me .. I don't think I fully understand what True love is. I find myself being manipulated by others and by my own preconceived expectations. I want to love others with the same love that Christ has for me and sometimes I just don't know how to practically apply that.
    posted by Candace
    on Friday, May 1, 2009 at 10:46 am
  5. I am interested in meekness and what it means to truly
    have a meek spirit. Where I get confused is if we are
    bold for Christ, prayer warriors, and convicted, and yet
    are meek...."as wise as a serpent but as harmless as a dove." The Lord just gave me the lyrics to, "we are weak
    but he is strong, Yes, Jesus loves me."
    posted by Michele
    on Friday, May 1, 2009 at 11:30 am
  6. Greetings, Paula --

    I guess the virtue on your list that has most captured my heart recently is that of meekness. Moses was the meekest man on earth. Jesus said to come and learn of Him, for He is meek and lowly in heart; His yoke is easy and His burden is light (Mt. 11). I desire to be meek, yet strong (and not wimpy!) as we are commanded to be; of a meek and quiet spirit, yet a woman of strength as the Pr. 31 woman. It seems like a paradox, doesn't it? I've studied some, but would value your insights along these lines.

    (Just as I wrote, some awesome thoughts came to my mind -- the law was given by Moses, grace and truth came by Jesus Christ (from John 1:17) -- and meekness was a key virtue in both their lives -- meekness must be very important in being able to be an able servant of the Lord, imparting His Truth to men!!)

    In His love,
    posted by Leslie S.
    on Friday, May 1, 2009 at 2:29 pm
  7. Meekness and love, please! I desparately need more of both!
    posted by Tracy
    on Friday, May 1, 2009 at 4:44 pm
  8. Greetings Ladies!

    Paula is currently on a mission trip, so I'm helping out by responding some to comments on her post.

    Thanks for all the great suggestions and questions. You've certainly fueled my desire to tackle some of these issues in our May posts! On Monday my post will tackle the question of "virtue" - what is it?

    For those of you wanting some input on the topic of love, in case you haven't read it, you might want to check out Mary Kassian's excellent post on this:

    http://www.truewoman.com/?id=593

    Thanks for your response!
    posted by Kimberly Wagner
    on Friday, May 1, 2009 at 4:56 pm
  9. Oh boy...submission is my weakness...definitely. I have struggled with the command to submit to my husband...a thorn in my side that has caused numerous problems throughout my marriage and set a terrible example for my own children...

    Sigh...

    You know...in my honest of hearts, I wouldn't mind terribly if we could just bypass this month's topics, but I hope that through the fire of these lessons will emerge a heart that has had the impurities seared out. A painful process, yes, but necessary to reflect God's glory.
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    posted by Nathalie
    on Friday, May 1, 2009 at 7:50 pm
  10. Meekness. It seems this virtue is somewhat difficult to define and even more difficult to describe so we can live it out. Jesus was described as meek so it is a characteristic that I need to understand and seek to live out.
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    posted by Miyoshi Gardner
    on Friday, May 1, 2009 at 9:07 pm
  11. I would have to say perseverance, and endurance I find thats where I need to work on more than anything. I need to strengthen my faith with the Truth of Gods Word. No matter what is going on in my life I want to be an overcomer, and I can through faith in Christ and by the power of the Holy Spirit.

    Perseverance and endurance are tough words, but we as women of God need them to get through tough times. When Jobs world collapsed around him, he kept on trusting God.

    Those who have true faith and salvation will endure, no matter what assaults may come against them.
    In reading Hebrews chapter 11 these believers never lost their faith, they endured to the end.

    The greatest evidence of true faith, perseverance and endurance, is in the book of Revelation,
    I have to say "WOW" to those tribulation saints.
    Being a strong woman of God means having persevering faith that endures to the end. So many wemon just want to give up when things get to tough. But Gods Words says keep running the race
    endure, persevere, press on to the goal set before you in other words never, ever give up. And I love those scriptures that back it up. Hebrews 12:1,2
    and Phill 3:12-14
    posted by Tambra Lucas
    on Sunday, May 3, 2009 at 5:09 pm
  12. PS I agree all the virtues above need to be addressed. I just spoke what was has been on my heart this week, and what I am hearing from other women, that are just weary and exausted from what the world and its stresses have placed on them.
    posted by Tambra Lucas
    on Sunday, May 3, 2009 at 5:24 pm

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