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Kimberly Wagner

Creative Beauty

Posted on 07.28.09 by Kimberly Wagner | Twitter: @KimberlyWagner7
Topics: Homefront

Grand CanyonThe awe inspired by the beauty of the Grand Canyon or the splendor of Niagara Falls points to an intelligent Designer. He's provided continual aesthetic delights for us. I'm grateful our Creator isn't dull or boring—but He has imaginative flair! He could've put together a shabby, dull, monotone world, but that would've been an extreme misrepresentation of who He is.

Beautifying our homes conveys some of the more creative qualities of the God we serve. If we want homes that display His glory by reflecting His character, then it helps to become students of beauty and creativity. Soft, calming colors that blend and tastefully chosen pieces of décor and artwork provide an appealing atmosphere. The furniture doesn't have to be expensive or new to possess comfortable beauty. Small touches like scented candles and soft classical pieces playing in the background can fill the air with a pleasant ambiance. Framed Scriptures communicate His Word in an attractive and personal way.

I've heard that Edith Schaeffer, wife of the late Francis Schaeffer, led more students to Christ through her cinnamon rolls than her husband did through all his philosophical discussions. I'm not sure of the accuracy of that statement, but I do know that sensory comforts can aid the education process! After her husband's death, Edith blessed the world by writing a beautiful tribute to God's creative character in her book Forever Music. The following excerpt was written to challenge us to use our creativity:
To be made in the image of God, the Creator, means that creativity is part of what human beings are in the very warp and woof of their beings. Human beings can't help being creative any more than they can help breathing, or communicating with other human beings .... Men and women, people, were given the earth to take care of, and to use in interesting, original, creative ways ....  There is a staggering diversity in Creation from the silence of snow to the delicate sound of rain on leaves. What amazing "models" have been made—not to be copies as if by Xerox or with a camera, but to give inspiration to creativity and birth to ideas in endless combinations and variations. The captivating ingredient in the whole fantastic stream of reality is that the Creator God created beings in His likeness so that each one could be a creator on a finite level.1

What ways are you using your God-given creativity to give your home an inviting atmosphere? I'd love to hear your "beauty tips" for the home!

1 Edith Schaeffer, Forever Music (Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 1986), 86. 

Comments

  1. Thank you for this topic today. It is good to be reminded that it is okay to create a nice home. I think it pleases the Lord for my home to bless others with an open door, a good meal, a comfortable bed or just a pleasant loving atmosphere. I read a good book called "Creating a SenseSational Home" (Awaken the senses to bring life and love to your home) by Terry Willits, which is a great tool for helping make our homes a relaxing, inviting, refreshing environment where Christ dwells.
    posted by Meredith
    on Tuesday, July 28, 2009 at 12:19 pm
  2. To be honest, I am creatively challenged when it comes to homes and clothing. I can sit down and do almost anything at all with a computer but when it comes to homes and clothing, I have to get serious help. Matter of fact, my husband (who is the manager of a department store) often decorates the home and me. He has been in the business for almost 20 years and can decorate or dress almost anyone but I can't. When we first got married, he basically threw away some of my clothes and bought me new ones. Could anyone give me some tips on how to learn to be creative or on how to tap into the creativity that is God-givien. I'd love to learn how to do all of this.
    posted by Jodi
    on Tuesday, July 28, 2009 at 1:32 pm
  3. Dear Kimberly,

    Thank you for this post! It is inspiring. We were in the home of Christian friends recently (condo) and the beautiful way in which the hostess had decorated was calming and refreshing. Although I desire to do this in a better way (home decor), I'll share a few little decorating touches that I think bring beauty and warmth to the atmosphere:

    * a vase (or vases) of fresh-picked flowers (or even artificial flowers/plants can add cheer!)
    * the smell of a fresh baked good (when possible)
    * the scent of a sweet-smelling candle, lit or unlit (be careful of the cheaper ones though, which may cause soot on the ceiling!) or a bowl of pot-pourri
    * houseplants
    * tasteful window treatments that let the sun in, and clean windows!
    * homemade artwork
    * artwork/photos displaying nature (God's creation) and animals
    * photos of family and friends, or adventures, tastefully displayed
    *snacks/beverages available (fruit bowls are pretty!)
    *wall-clocks
    *flower wreaths
    *pretty tissue boxes
    *a magazine holder w/edifying magazines

    In His love,
    posted by Leslie S.
    on Tuesday, July 28, 2009 at 2:02 pm
  4. P.S. Jodi, I just saw your post. I too have been "creatively challenged" in some ways, but have asked the Lord to help me with this, and He has given me many friends who are good at it (decorating). I borrow ideas from them and ask for their help sometimes! Your husband sounds like a great resource, maybe even a provision from God in this area! (My husband has good taste, too.) Other people may have more practical tips for you than I ...

    Blessings through Jesus,
    posted by Leslie S.
    on Tuesday, July 28, 2009 at 2:08 pm
  5. Thanks again for another inspiring article!

    I've just returned from spending time in my cousin's home. I came home feeling relaxed and ready to "spruce up" my home a bit. She had scented soap and candles making every room smell nice. It made me feel very welcome to stay in such a nice atmosphere. Those little touches make a big difference!
    true woman
    posted by Carol
    on Tuesday, July 28, 2009 at 2:21 pm
  6. I grew up in a very disorderly home due to my mother's OCD hoarding disorder. Unfortunately, she has never gotten help for it and has lived with me for the past twenty years. It was a very hard thing for my husband to deal with and definitely was one factor resulting in my divorce. I have always desired to be able to create a welcoming atmosphere in my home, but am challenged by the way I grew up and my mother's constant cluttering. I don't know what to do to make her stop! I get very frustrated and depressed by the way things are in my own home that I cannot control. It has been my lifelong dream to create a home that is cozy, inviting, and pleasant. Please pray for me and for my mother. Her name is Jean. She's 81 years old, but she's had this problem my entire life (I'm 46.) You literally had to walk through paths of stuff piled waist high to get through the home I grew up in. It was extremely embarrassing to say the least. I try hard to honor my mother as I'm supposed to, but feel very dishonored by her lack of respect for my wishes in my own home. She has never been able to admit she has a problem and seek help. All of my life I've desired to be a woman who can create a nice home, but it seems impossible for me dealing with a problem like my mother has and my need to work full-time to support my family. I haven't the time or energy to keep up with it all. I suffer depression too as a result of the constant chaos in my home caused by her disorder. Thank you for your ministry!
    posted by Barbara Davis
    on Tuesday, July 28, 2009 at 3:21 pm
  7. Jodi,

    What a blessing to have a husband that can, and is willing, to help out in this department! Also, Leslie has passed on several good tips for you.

    In considering how you could "tap into" the creativity God has given you, here's a few suggestions:

    1) Ask. Let God know that you are needy in this area and you desire to cultivate this area of your life in order to display beauty as a means of reflecting to others what He's like.

    2) Consider inviting a few friends over that seem to have a creative flair and ask them to give you some tips. Ask for input on how to improve your home decor.

    3) Consider attending an interior decorating or even basic art class (sometimes these are available through local libraries, craft stores, or community colleges).

    4) Pick up a few home and garden magazines that will give you helpful tips and ideas. Also, use your computer skills to check out some good blog-sites on this topic.

    Thanks for being so open with your struggle in this area. You aren't alone, many women can confess to feeling a failure in this area! Adding beautiful touches to our home is a way of presenting an inviting and attractive environment -- but remember, the most important beauty we can cultivate is the beauty of a Christ-like heart.

    No matter how perfectly decorated the home, if it contains members whose lives are filled with anger, bitterness, unforgiveness, and self-centered focus, the home has lost its beauty.

    Hope this helps!
    posted by Kimberly Wagner
    on Tuesday, July 28, 2009 at 5:07 pm
  8. Dear Barbara,

    I am asking God to give you wisdom and discernment from Him to know how to honor your mother, but also how to be responsible in the care of your own home.

    Although you've probably held discussions with her in the past and sought a solution that would bring about an agreeable compromise to this problem, would you feel free to share this post with her and then humbly relay your desires to give order to your own home?

    If she is unwilling to part with unnecessary clutter, could you propose that she purchase or rent some type of storage unit where these things could be moved? Or perhaps agree on allowing her to store as much as she wants to keep within her own living space, but explain that in order for the family to have a home of order, the amount she keeps must be limited to what will fit in her area of the home.

    You may have already attempted all I've suggested, and my heart goes out to you, I pray you can reach a peaceful resolution that will benefit the entire family.

    Revive Our Hearts has some encouraging radio interviews with Donna Otto on this topic that I think you would find helpful:

    https://www.reviveourhearts.com/radio/roh/today.php?pid=9244


    Praying for you,
    posted by Kimberly Wagner
    on Tuesday, July 28, 2009 at 5:38 pm
  9. I've got to say I've been deleting many true women posts without reading them lately. I'm a single, tired mom with lots of responsibilities - but want a heart and life that pleases God. But adding decorating a home to those endless responsibilities is too much for me. I look at my empty walls, and mismatched dishes, old furniture and chairs and I think ugh, maybe it doesn't reflect God's character so much. But my heart and my attitude - "Am I thankful, do I love?" can reflect God's character.
    posted by Lisa
    on Tuesday, July 28, 2009 at 5:48 pm
  10. My husband is literally disabled, but still working to make a living, still working to remodel (rebuild) our house (last 5 years), and many, many other projects that he enjoys to try and get his mind off of his pain and him out of the chair/bed.
    I get discouraged sometimes when I look around at my house because everything is in disarray, not organized and just stacked where it can be due to lack of finished space. I don't want to be a nagging wife because I understand how much he has on his plate and I can only do so much. Work in progress.
    However, with my 5 children we try to keep things in order as much as possible until the day the house is finished! Families and children of all ages love coming to our house and its not because of what my house looks like! They keep coming back :-)
    I'm grateful for the love of Christ and try to convey that to each of my guests whether family or friends in serving them and loving them in my home making it feel like their home or a place of refuge for them.
    Thanks for the post!
    posted by Paula
    on Tuesday, July 28, 2009 at 7:04 pm
  11. Dear Kimberly,

    Thank you for your response to my post the other day. I just now got a chance to come back and check it. I deeply appreciate your advice, but I must admit, I HAVE tried all of those suggestions. As for storage, she already has several properties filled up with JUNK and is paying taxes and lot rent on them. I'm forced to pay rent when there are properties in my family that could be utilized if she would part with things. That's the most absolutely FRUSTRATING thing about it all, since she lives with me.

    My grandmother's house, which she owns, has not been lived in since 1976 because she started storing stuff in it back then to the point of making it uninhabitable. Plus, she has done so with two other properties as well. I wish she could be MADE to do something, but she can't. I will show her this blog and maybe that will help. It has been an awful mess and a huge shame and embarrassment all of my life. I love her but she really gets to me sometimes.

    I will check out the radio interview you mentioned. Thank you so much for your kindness and especially for praying! I've been crying out for a solution to this enormous problem for a very long time. God bless you.

    Barb
    posted by Barbara Davis
    on Friday, July 31, 2009 at 3:50 pm
  12. Barb,
    I will pray for you too! The Lord has used the prayers of these dear people (Kimberly and staff at ROH/TW) in my life, more than once. Don't give up, dear sister! The Lord has the solution and it is good you've been looking to Him, even if it has been a long time. Luke 18 comes to mind about persistent prayer/faith, "that men ought always to pray and not to faint", and that the Lord is looking for faith. He is faithful!
    In His love,
    posted by Leslie S.
    on Friday, July 31, 2009 at 5:53 pm

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