What we’ve been chewing on
After all the meat and potatoes we’ve served you for months (as we’ve discussed the Word of God, prayer, the local church, embracing our design as women, and more), this month we want to fix you a refreshing glass of strawberry lemonade and chat about our homes, priorities, and hospitality.
What does your home have to do with being a true woman?
Lots more than you might initially think! We’ll learn all about it this next month as we explore commitment #9 of the True Woman Manifesto:
By His grace and in humble dependence on His power, we will . . . Seek to establish homes that manifest the love, grace, beauty, and order of God; that provide a climate conducive to nurturing life; and that extend Christian hospitality to those outside the walls of our homes.
What we’re offering this month
After all, God calls us to be true women in the nitty-gritty, at-first-glance-“unspiritual” details of life: cleaning toilets, paying bills, fixing meals, creating beautiful homes, etc. We hope to help you practically this month as we not only talk about the home/hospitality, but also give you recipes, time management skills, and more.
Are you in?
Spread the word to your friends, and let me know as we get started: do you love taking care of your home, or hate it? Do you enjoy hospitality, or feel incapable of it? Also, anything you really, really, really want us to address this month?
The Giveaway You’re Wondering About . . .
As we segue from “the church” to “hospitality,” we want to offer one free Romantic Reflections Retreat for your pastor and his wife (a $300 value!). This is an over-the-top incredible way to bless your pastor and his wife for their tireless service to you and your local church.
To win this gift for your pastor and his wife, just leave a comment below telling us what you appreciate about this couple. If we draw your name, you will have the opportunity to bless their socks off! (Please enter only once; we will draw the winning entry on Friday, July 31.)
And if you're a pastor's wife, please enter the drawing by just letting us know that you are a pastor's wife!
Leave a Comment:
We love hearing from you, and will post your comment as long as it is appropriate, and is written in a tone that is encouraging, edifying, and loving to others. Even then, know that the following comments do not necessarily reflect the views of Revive Our Hearts.

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on Tuesday, June 30, 2009 at 6:56 am
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on Tuesday, June 30, 2009 at 8:44 am
This morning I was reminded how important it is for us to pray for our Pastor and family. Our family is so thankful for a Pastor who loves the Lord so much and His Word. He is a Pastor who loves his wife so much and his children and grandchildren. My prayer this morning please Lord remind us to pray for our Pastors and their families!
Thanks for the reminder to honor our Pastor.
on Tuesday, June 30, 2009 at 8:58 am
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on Tuesday, June 30, 2009 at 9:22 am
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on Tuesday, June 30, 2009 at 10:17 am
Pastor Mike Ross and his wife, Jane are an answer to prayer for our church. We were without a senior pastor for a long time. When the Lord called Pastor Ross and Jane to come to our church, they left their home, moved to our state, and had faith in the Lord that He would work out all the details of selling their old home. It was trying for them, but they were faithful and obedient to Him, and as a result they and we (our church) have been so blessed. The Word of God is preached every Sunday, and that is a gift for us! Now, we have the chance to give him and his wife a gift in return! Thanks again! :)
on Tuesday, June 30, 2009 at 10:31 am
He has such a humble spirit and is full of encouragement and can honestly work circles around most people in the church. He has a strong stand on the Word of God and preaches holiness as a standard for all God's people.
He and his wife have been at our church for about 5 years and in those short 5 years have basically doubled the congregation, increased missions giving, started several ministries within the church (including women/men's ministries), purchased land and several other things, because he encouraged the hearts of the people. He never says "can't" and he won't let you say it either. He says if God says it can be done, it can be done. O what faith and courage I have seen in his life and am thankful that God sent him our way.
(He also prayed that my husband and I would be blessed with children after years of being childless. We now have two beautiful children.)
on Tuesday, June 30, 2009 at 11:46 am
on Tuesday, June 30, 2009 at 12:06 pm
And way to lead the pastor's wives, Marcia! I'm so glad you entered the drawing.
on Tuesday, June 30, 2009 at 12:10 pm
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on Tuesday, June 30, 2009 at 4:23 pm
What a blessing to be challenged to do something so wonderful and how encouraging it is to read all the comments about pastors and their wives. May each pastor and his wife represented feel so loved and be very blessed.
Our pastor and wife planted this church over 30 years ago. They have been faithful to care about their people and share the Gospel over those years. They have given sacrificially, loved unconditionally and just plain worked hard all to God's glory. Presently, they are struggling with her health issues that are extremely severe and yet they remain faithful. They are much loved.
May God bless Pastor Chuck and June Trent.
on Tuesday, June 30, 2009 at 6:57 pm
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on Tuesday, June 30, 2009 at 9:32 pm
When Jude was born, his spine was almost completely curved backwards, and his feet and legs were severely misshapen. He has endured countless surgeries and is, despite doctors' predictions, thriving and even recently walked.
Lexi and Nic's faith through those dark days has had a profound impact on our congregation. Their lives have normalized, and they lead very busy schedules. Lexi teaches two Bible studies and recently obtained her Master's Degree. Nic has a full schedule as well.
I think that when you watch others go through adversity and handle it in such a Spirit-led way, you can't help but be affected, encouraged, and challenged to follow suit.
on Tuesday, June 30, 2009 at 10:03 pm
on Wednesday, July 1, 2009 at 3:37 am
We are sharing our love for Jesus with all the children and their families in our daycare and he lets them all know he is their if they need to talk .
Iam feel that Pastor Palmer and his wife are truely a gift from God for not only this church but also our community.
on Wednesday, July 1, 2009 at 7:57 am
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on Wednesday, July 1, 2009 at 10:44 am
He's trying to care for the seniors & pre-seniors in that though he hates hymns he still sings them for our church.
on Wednesday, July 1, 2009 at 10:56 am
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on Wednesday, July 1, 2009 at 3:40 pm
Thank you for supporting and loving your husband during this difficult time. Our team is praying for you.
"We know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he mght be the firstborn among many brothers" (Romands 8:28-29)
on Wednesday, July 1, 2009 at 4:00 pm
Our team is praying for you and Mount Calvary, too!
on Wednesday, July 1, 2009 at 4:02 pm
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on Friday, July 3, 2009 at 8:32 pm
Pastor Jerry is a faithful teacher of God's Word who definitely demonstrates a passion for God and His Word. He loves teaching the Word and loves the people God has placed under his care.
His wife has been a special blessing to me as well. When we were very new to the church we met with Pastor Jerry for some counsel regarding our marriage and, after that meeting, he recommended me meeting with his wife also. She called me about that within a day or so and then came weekly for several weeks until we were moving again. We were both so thankful for their counsel and that they would take that kind of time for people they did not know, nor who had been part of the church for long at all.
We have and are growing at this church and are SO very thankful for a pastor (and the rest of the staff) who are seeking to honor God and live for His glory alone. The Word is taught unashamedly and lived out by our leaders. We praise God for allowing us to now be able to stay and be a part of this church for awhile. :)
on Saturday, July 4, 2009 at 1:54 pm
We just got back from a lovely vacation (first one in years) and it was so refreshing. Our pastor (the husband of Jo, above) is truly a blessing; a man of the Word of God and prayer; one who has stuck with us through thick and thin. Not only he, but also his wife and family, have been a true example of a Christian home for the church, and he has been faithful to "feed the flock". I would love to see them have a vacation like this. However I will be praying that the Lord's perfect will be done in this matter -- He alone knows who needs it most, and whom He will send to the Lodge -- may the will of the Lord be done, and I pray that He blesses not only my pastor, but all the faithful pastors and their wives (if married) with all the rest and resfreshment they need this summer/year. As Jesus said, "Come apart and rest."
In His love,
on Monday, July 6, 2009 at 8:50 am
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on Friday, July 10, 2009 at 11:45 pm
Pastor encourages parents to bring their children into the church service with them and to teach them to listen to the sermon, by providing paper with squares on it to draw pictures of the sermon's message...a child's way of taking notes on the sermon.
Our pastor and his wife are very concerned with teaching us to take responsibility for our children...our own, if we have children, and our church children as a congregation. We need to model how to listen and to behave in a Christian way. We set the examples in how we talk, the things we place importance on, and of course our actions.
Being a Christian is a lifestyle....Christ flowing through us 24/7 to our families, our church, our community, our country, etc. To do this, we must be in the Word, in Prayer, in Meditation, and totally focused on God. Do we do it perfectly....no! But we are involved together as a church, helping each other and reaching out to others.
on Sunday, July 12, 2009 at 4:08 am
To the rest of you, thank you for your heart to bless your pastor and his wife. I encourage you to pray about sending them to the Lodge for a Romantic Reflections Retreat--it will bless them deeply!
http://www.lifeaction.org/thelodge/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=12&Itemid=26
on Friday, July 31, 2009 at 1:22 pm
The sole truth (of the Word) of God also tells me when I have let the world slip into my heart trying to rule my flesh; that is when the Spirit tells me I have again missed the mark of being pleasing to God and I become broken and repentant. How great is it to know when communion with God is broken by our sin, the relationship with God is not because Jesus was sent and is the intercessor for us to His Father!
How undeservingly loved I feel to have learned this! I cant help but to weep from excitement knowing that God provided the ONLY way, truth and life through His son, JESUS for such a worm as I. I now know the desperate need for God and Jesus in my life and in the lives of others. I could only imagine the hopelessness and despair of a life without HIM. Thanks be to God for what HE's done and for what my pastor has done as well.
My pastor works a 60 hour week, provides for his family of 10, takes care of the flock of our tiny church of 11 families, tends to the needs of other pastors, churches and the community and STILL finds the time to pastor our Church every Sunday morning, Sunday evening and Wednesday WHILE giving up his Church salary to do it!! He uses his pastoral salary(which is less than my electric bill) to help the needs of his church by keeping food on our tables, keeping electricity in our homes, providing transportation for those who dont have a way to get to hear the Word of God, provides support and counseling with instruction by the Word, tends to the bedside of the sick and ill in the hospital, providing monetary legal help, providing personal services to the members of the church by fixing broken water wells, yard clean up after our hurricane and cutting the grass for the widow of our church.
On top of all that, he keeps our little church operational so that we are afforded the opportunity to meet with God. His wife is the secretary of the church, she provides child care for the children and sleep overs for those children for the partents sake while taking care of her own 6 children, she organizes womens bible study every Friday night, teaches Sunday school for the little children during services, organizes the womens retreat annually, gives emotional support and her time to her husband, the church, the community and all the women within the church who need her and home-schools her own children during the school year, ALL while receiving NO SALARY either. They are a God-send to me. They are the supportship of our church. My pastor has a lifeline to God. My pastor surrenders all of himself to allow God to work through him for our benefit and always gives glory to God for it. He asks nothing in return... ever. His is passionate of Gods will, through Gods will and for Gods will. He is my pastor, he teaches the Word of God, he loves the Word of God and he LIVES the Word of God.
I have never met another like my pastor or his wife. He is the Shepherd of our Church and I will follow him in support to anywhere. The only thing he will accept in appreciation from our church is our prayers for him and his family. I would love to honor him and his wife by submitting this letter as an opportunity for them to have some alone time with each other and with God.
This I pray for in Jesus' Holy name, Amen.
on Thursday, August 6, 2009 at 5:25 pm